I thought today would be a good day to follow Morgen’s lead and write about my blogging friends. Especially after yesterday’s sadistic post. Sorry if any of you pissed your pants. Nothing like a little evil cheer to get you going in the morning.
I’ve only been blogging for three months and I’m amazed at how important it has become in my life. Honestly, I started my blog to help plug my sister’s new online boutique but it lead to what it is now because I found that I like to write and I love the comments even more. I can spend hours reading other blogs and in three months time I have made quite a few friends. This post is dedicated to those friends but I don’t want to leave out the friends without blogs that I know are lurking. I’m so blessed to have you in my life. I love you and appreciate you. Feel free to comment on my blog. You don’t need to have a blog to do so.
My first blogging friend was Tabba. She was my first commenter and she kept coming back. Obviously she liked what I wrote so I kept writing. She also “got” me. We are alike in many ways and I was happy to find someone with similar parenting issues. I was afraid I wasn’t going to find many like me because the first few “mommy blogs” I read were so Pollyanna. I can understand writing about how wonderful your children are for friends and family but it’s quite boring for those who don’t know you. I would click off with an eye roll and not go back. I wanted to be different. Actually I wanted to just be me; open, honest, tell-it-like-it-is Kristie. This is my life kind of blog where I write about my kid’s learning disabilities, their weird quirks, Madeline’s Tourette’s Syndrome, that I get depressed sometimes, that marriage is hard even though I love my hubby deeply, and about my estranged relationship with my parents. I also wanted to be silly and have fun. Tabba was the first blog that I read that also wrote about many of these things so we became friends quickly. She is a very kind and supportive friend although misunderstood at times. I “get” you Tabba and thank you for being my first blogging friend. I may not have continued blogging if it weren’t for you so I’m telling hubby it’s your fault when he gets aggravated with how much time I spend on the ‘puter.
Momish is another friend that keeps coming back for more of my crap. I really enjoy reading her because she can write very thought provoking posts but also be so damn funny. I don’t think she realizes it but she’s a fantastic writer. Often I click off thinking Damn, wish I could write like that.
I became friends with Oh, the joys over a big butt challenge. She’s another one who can really write well and I keep going back for more of this and this.
Brony is a very special blogging friend because of the mental illness connection. She has a Borderline Personality Disorder like my mom. Brony has given me a glimpse into what kinds of thoughts my mom must deal with. It’s too late for me and my mom but it helps me to understand the disorder better . I took so many things my mom did and said personally when it really wasn’t about me at all. I really admire Brony. She is so strong and her honest glimpse into the dark places of her mind is admirable. I’m one of those people who believes we are all given a path in life to follow. Some of us get bumpier paths with many turns and drop offs that can be a real challenge. My path had a very bumpy childhood but I refuse to be a victim because of it. I’m who I am because of it and do my best to help other’s on the same path. Brony is the same way. Her path is leading her to help others and open awareness about mental illness. She’s doing a marvelous job and I’m proud of her.
Looney Mom is my daily reminder to be thankful for all God’s gifts. I admire her strong faith in God and turn to her for inspiration with my struggles of faith. She manages the difficult times in her life beautifully because she strongly believes that God will guide and protect her. Not an easy thing to do for many of us. I also love how non-judgemental she is and very supportive of her friends. If you visit her watch her avatar as the page loads and you’ll get to see her sexy undergarments. cracks me up every time.
Crazymumma has been my words of wisdom. She has great motherly instincts and is a fabulous mom. I love her stories about her daughters and she’s another one who can be so damn funny.
I love domestic goddess’s informative posts and the fun photos she posts. I get the feeling from her posts that she is a warm and kind person. I don’t remember how we got connected but I’m glad that we did.
I became friends with Mrs. L due to similar life experiences. She has been such a source of comfort for me. If we ever got on the phone with each other we would probably talk for hours. I love reading her stories about the wild animals that stalk her home.
I met Pippajo through Tabba and I firmly believe that once word gets out she will be a very popular blog. I don’t think she realizes how well she can write and funny to boot. I just hope when she hits the big time that she won’t forget about me.
Tonya and I bonded over our heart shaped uterus’s and I keep going back for the stories about her kids. She’s warm, funny, and interesting. Definitely a mom I could hang out with.
Jenny and I swear we were separated at birth because we have so much in common such as we are both nurses, her hubby is a cop and so is my dad, and we both have four kids. She sucked me in with a hysterical post about spanking her ipod and I’ve been going back ever since.
Neila is a new blogging friend and if you haven’t been to her blog you must go now. I’ll wait… What took you so long? Oh I know, funny shit. Her stories about teething babies and toddler tantrums should be Saturday Night Live skits. She’s becoming a Passion Parties rep and I can’t wait to read her posts about it. It’ll be good!
I need to wrap this up because it has taken me hours to write this while taking care of kids. I’ll end this with a shout out to my newest friends and I hope I didn’t leave anyone out. If I did it’s because I’m scattered brain and not because I don’t consider you a friend.
Jen sucked me in with this post and I keep going back for more because she is just darling and so funny. I don’t think she realizes how funny she is.
I felt an instant connection with Janet a.k.a “wonder mom” when I read this post since I also struggle with these same thoughts.
I can always count on Maggie for informative posts and great quizzes.
I appreciate everyone of you and I thank you for being my blogging friends.
Editors note: I’ve noticed that there is a lot of spread the love posts going on which is too weird because I didn’t know this was going on before I wrote this post. I’ve been wanting to do this since I read Morgen’s post last week. Too weird. If it was Friday the 13th I would be freaked out.
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My house is a mess, my kids are obnoxious, and my husband is sexually deprived.
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Neila
October 25th, 2006 at 1:49 pm
Thank you for the the shout-out!! I love your blog! Yours is one that I visit every day. You are someone who can truly relate to my daily craziness!
And the Passion Parties! I can’t wait! My first party is in two weeks. I will let you know how it goes. I just can’t wait to get my kit so I can start testing all of this stuff out on my husband. Woo hoo!
And don’t worry - I will definitely be back to twist your arm!!
blessedmomx3
October 25th, 2006 at 2:34 pm
You are SO nice! Thank you for thinking my posts are funny! That’s one more weird thing about yourself to add to the list! Ha ha! JUST kidding! I’m honored and I love your blog, too! I’m here to steal that audio of the phone call with the soliciter b/c my dad thinks it’s so funny. He wants me to send it to his friend at work.
Looney Mom
October 25th, 2006 at 2:57 pm
Oh thank you Kristie for the kind words. You are so sweet (except for yesterday - LOL!). I’m so THANKFUL that I had the sound muted or I just might have wet myself!!
I’m glad you consider my blog worthwhile. I come here for my daily laughs! Thanks for being my blog buddy!
I think I need to go change my underwear!! No, I mean my avatar’s underwear! LOL!
Jenny
October 25th, 2006 at 3:10 pm
I knew back when I read your “about me” description of yourself that we were two peas in a pod. And even on my busiest days, I have to come see what you’ve posted!
*kisskiss*
Momish
October 25th, 2006 at 3:56 pm
Thank you for the kind words, Kristie! It truly means a lot coming from you. I admire your writing so much and how you can always find a way to make me laugh, really laugh. You comments always mean a lot to me too, especially since you were the first blogger I felt a connection with (like what you wrote about Tabba)! You kept me going at that critical time I wasn’t so sure I was cut out for this. I can go on for hours, but thanks to you, I now have like a dozen more blogs I have to start reading and adding to my list! Because, chica, if you admire them, then they must be good! (which is why I am completely in awe that I was miraculously on that list *blush*).
P.S. Just so you know I’m not exagerrating my lurve for you, I’ll have you know my husband now asks me, “So, what did Slackermommy post today.” When just a few short months ago, it was, “hon, you gotta read this…”
P.S.+ It is uncanny the amount of love going around! But, I love the love! Thanks for being such a great blog buddy!
Tabba
October 25th, 2006 at 5:39 pm
(((((((((((HUGS))))))))))

Thank you for the sweetest shout-out EVER! You are the bestest, baby!!
I hope you know that though I may not always comment, I check & read your post everyday, again….and again….and again
I LOVE your stuff & YOU inspire me to keep this thing going too! So, collectively we can blame each other to both of our mans!
Love ya sweets!!
I AM misunderstood! I guess that’s why I don’t get a huge pool of comments….people are afraid I’m going to rip their heads off
BarnGoddess
October 25th, 2006 at 6:23 pm
what a great run-down of your friends
lol, I am still laughing over the “Pollyana” comment, I found the same thing myself when I first searched stay-at-home mom blogs.
I was like, yeah right, mrs.cleaver….
Oh, The Joys
October 25th, 2006 at 6:43 pm
You are too sweet to include me! Thanks for that… I might just forgive you for scaring the CRAP out of me yesterday now.
LUUUUUUUURRRRRRRVVVVVVVVVVVV,
OTJ
Sparky
October 25th, 2006 at 8:58 pm
That was a really great post, I even got a little choked up reading it. Of course, it could be the bourbon
Janet a.k.a. "Wonder Mom"
October 26th, 2006 at 5:38 am
Oh, thank you for including me in there…I am honored. Especially since it was that post that connected us! That was a very controversial post here in this house!
Just so you know, I visit you every day because I feel just as connected to you…sistah.
slackermommy
October 26th, 2006 at 12:38 pm
Feeling the love!
Domestic Goddess
October 26th, 2006 at 3:02 pm
wow slacker, thanks for the mention. I don’t know how I missed this post yesterday.
I am going to take some time and visit your friends.
Isn’t it great to have blogger buddies!
Tonya
October 26th, 2006 at 3:33 pm
Thanks for the shout out! I’m glad you brought this post to my attention. I’ve been so swamped with those dang bows that I haven’t had a chance to catch up with everyone. I’ll be going back and reading where I last left off, but it would have taken me awhile to get to this one.
I love this idea and may have to “borrow” it sometime!
Ms.L
October 26th, 2006 at 5:14 pm
You’re so awesome and sweet too.
Thank you!
I feel the same way:)
I like you and am glad we’ve met!
xoxoxoxoxo
Barb
October 27th, 2006 at 6:39 pm
What a very nice post to honor your friends =)
Brony
October 29th, 2006 at 8:49 am
Thank you so much for the very heart felt comment about my site. I really appreciate it.
You are so right, in life we have a path to follow. Trying to help others gives my illnesses a reason and makes it easier for the deal with them. I am so glad that you are getting something out of them.
Sorry I didn’t comment sooner. I’ve been having not only Blogger problems, but also internet problems.
I always enjoy stopping by your site. I’ve always admired your honesty Kristie. Plus, you do such a great job conveying what you’re feeling. Thanks for letting us be a part of your journey and for joining all of us on ours.
Pippajo
November 2nd, 2006 at 8:03 pm
I am so very behind in my comments! I feel awful, especially after you said such sweet things about me!
I’m not sure what to do with all this love that’s going around! I never saw this coming, never.
Thank you for the encouragement. I am flattered that you enjoy my blog because I enjoy YOURS! I find it mind-boggling that I can just empty my head into my blog and then there are people out there who find it entertaining and come back for more! Who knew?
So, thanks again. I check your blog every day and was so chuffed to see myself named there, and in such good company!
Still giggling…